"So sorry Pam, to have heard the news of Uncle Jims passing. I had not known he was in intensive care for the last 2 months. I will keep you in my prayers for the months to come as WE OUR FAMILY (INCLUDING ALL OF US THE EXTENDED FAMILY) WELL knows we have all gone though so much so fast there seems not enough time to grieve, mourn, help, care for, or even comfort all of those that need it. I am as I said going to once again reach out to our Lord and Heavenly Father to look upon you with his love and grace and to be with you close For the foreseeable future and help you to grieve the loss you are so feeling now! I promise Aunt Pam,that the hole that is in your heart will heal and you will feel whole again, but it is going to feel like that time will never come, I promise with the help of our Lord it will come!
I love you! I hope this didn't sound corny,it is so hard to say the right thing at time's like these!
P.S. Sorry I won't be there on Jim's day but know I am there with you by heart and spirit!"